I guess this blog is more for me to vent and rant than it is for people to read. I have heard that it is good for you to write down your feelings. This helps to better internalize your emotions. Anyway, today is a bloppy day. What is bloppy? Bloppy is a day when you are feeling ok but not particularly in a good mood. My life has been a shambles for a long time. I once was a powerful man who enjoyed the finer things. However, arrogance took over and that led to divorce, divorce led to remarriage which led to another divorce. Now I am on wife number three. I sincerely hope this is the last time that nuptuals will be swapped in my life time. She is a great girl with a good head on her shoulders. However, sometimes I still think I should be alone for awhile. I still need to shake the past hurt and emotions from the past relationships that I have had. I have loved alot. Given alot and hurt alot. I hope it is time for me to recoup some of the devastation and turn it into a great life. I have often said and thought that is is difficult living in the shadow of the man I once was.
I have really struggled lately with where God wants me to be. I never thought (nor my family) that I would be the guy that would be married three times. It just wasn't supposed to be that way. I was married the first time for just over twenty years. I knew that marriage would eventually end. We grew apart tremendously during the last five years of the marriage. I certainly thought the second one would be forever. However, the baggage and habits that we both brought in to the marriage destroyed it before it came to full bloom. This time I hope that things work out and at this point they are going very well. I have calculated the time from I was born that I have been a single man. That time is 17 years and 4 months. I got married the first time at the age of a young 17. That leaves about two months time between each divorce and remarriage. Is that nuts or what?! I guess I am a real life marrying man. As I said earlier, I have loved a lot and hurt a lot. I get so frustrated with myself for making hasty, wrong and eventually hurtful decisions. However, I know the identity of my true love and thats all I can say about that.
I guess that's all for now. I look forward to the first comment.
Take care.
I have really struggled lately with where God wants me to be. I never thought (nor my family) that I would be the guy that would be married three times. It just wasn't supposed to be that way. I was married the first time for just over twenty years. I knew that marriage would eventually end. We grew apart tremendously during the last five years of the marriage. I certainly thought the second one would be forever. However, the baggage and habits that we both brought in to the marriage destroyed it before it came to full bloom. This time I hope that things work out and at this point they are going very well. I have calculated the time from I was born that I have been a single man. That time is 17 years and 4 months. I got married the first time at the age of a young 17. That leaves about two months time between each divorce and remarriage. Is that nuts or what?! I guess I am a real life marrying man. As I said earlier, I have loved a lot and hurt a lot. I get so frustrated with myself for making hasty, wrong and eventually hurtful decisions. However, I know the identity of my true love and thats all I can say about that.
I guess that's all for now. I look forward to the first comment.
Take care.
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