Wiping off my brow and pushing forward.......

What can I say?! I have made many mistakes in my life. However, I can say there has been many more positive things in my life than negative. I absolutely hate to mention prior relationships and ex wives. However, I have learned in the past few years that there is no hope for an ex wife to move on with their own life and simply leave mine alone. Sure I realize, in some circumstances, there are lingering financial responsibilities that may tie two unwanting people together. But there is no need for an ex wife to twist the truth and lie about any part of the relationship just to draw attention and sympathy to her. My ex wife has continued to portray the 'bleeding heart' and plead the victim to everyone she can find. However, she fails to remember the life I left behind to be with her. I will be the first to say that ever being with my ex wife was the biggest mistake of my life. The Bible teaches us that the devil will present a temptation and make it look so attractive and be the right thing to do but in the end we only find hurt and destruction. That is what happened to me. I made the mistake of marrying my ex wife after being married for 22 years. She drained me in every way and I allowed her to do it. How stupid can a man be? She still falsely magnifies my faults(and creates new ones) just to continue to draw support from family and friends. Her ex husband stated he had to carry her around in a cotton lined basket and I firmly understand why he would say such a thing. Sorry for the rambling. Sometimes it is difficult to take the high road.

For the first time in my adult life, I know what it means to be truly happy. I have found that the true love from a real woman is the main strength of a man. I hope each and every person that reads my blog finds the right person to spend their life with. For so long, I wanted someone to stroll along the path of life hand in hand regardless of the weather. I thought I had found that but now I know I have.

Take care, Tony